Scientist turned love Expert. Samantha Jayne is a leading dating and relationship expert who combines evidence based scientific strategies with deep personal insight to help individuals find meaningful love and create lasting, fulfilling relationships.
With over 20 years of experience, Samantha has helped thousands of singles and couples to transform their love lives by breaking patterns, avoiding common mistakes, and building deep emotional connections.
Driven by her own journey through heartbreak and healing. Samantha turned her pain into purpose. Her mission is clear: to empower others to experience the kind of love that feels aligned, safe, and nourishing. She believes that everyone deserves a relationship that not only lasts—but deeply satisfies.
Sam regularly appears on talk-back radio, television, and several advice columns offering relationship advice to the nation!
Samantha’s unique approach blends science, psychology, and behavioural profiling to uncover hidden blocks, increase confidence and attract healthy love. Whether you’re navigating modern dating, healing from a breakup, or looking to reignite a long-term partnership, Samantha offers proven tools and heartfelt guidance every step of the way.
Love Isn’t Luck It’s Alignment.
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“I empower singles and couples helping them build soulful, authentic connections with themselves and others to create a life they truly love.”
I empower individuals to be their best version, feel confident, raise their standards and be excited about love and relationships. It doesn’t matter if you’re single and looking for “the one” or in a relationship and you want to ignite a deeper than ever connection I can help.
I take the emotion out of dating and focus on the facts, tapping into a step by step analytical counter intuitive process that can predict the outcome of a relationship and creating deep understanding and connections. Once you know the facts you can invest your heart and have the most passionate, safe, exciting and fulfilling relationship.
I have studied human behaviour, psychology, archetypes, ancient theories dating back to the 18th century, behavioural profiling, and attraction strategies combined with masculine and feminine energies that work in synergy to help you attract and keep the relationship you want!
Singles:
The biggest problem I’m seeing is burnout caused by the paradox of dating. Too much choice but nothing actually sticks because the grass is always greener…or is it??
For singles dating burnout is real, they don’t know who to trust, they feel frustrated with the dating space, they are scared of making a mistake and are tired of wasting time on bad dates and nowhere relationships.
Before they implement my strategies singles are clueless and use trial and error and the so called numbers game which is exhausting and exactly what keeps them stuck. Not only does this destroy motivation, confidence and self doubt start to kick in.
They are using a one size fit’s all approach which simply doesn’t work!
Couples:
Couples are so caught up in their busy lives they are often disconnected. Many have lost their identity and passion and can drift apart feeling the pressures of poor communication, unmet needs, finances, kids, families, work which manifest into a strained relationship. They stop playing and become more like business partners.
Couples priortise what seems like everyone else above the relationship. The love jar is empty as they are on autopilot. Sometimes they stop communicating their needs to avoid a fight causing further disconnect, loneliness and resentment.
The biggest reason relationships fail is unmet needs and misaligned values. That’s why the Joya balance helps couples get stronger and singles get clearer on what they want!
Joya is about designing your Best Life. Balance within the wheel is crucial for wellbeing and a fulfilling life creating happiness, productivity and a sense of purpose. When the wheel is out of balance it causes exhaustion, stress, unhappiness and negative feelings.
What I love about the wheel is that it is transparent and measurable. Just the way I like to work!
The Joya wheel allows you to see your strengths and identifies areas that need improvement. It looks at 8 areas in your life that are critical for happiness and allow you to have energy, excitement to move forward towards the life you want.
If you have passion at work and good balance it allows you to have the resources to create a beautiful life doing the things you love. The Joya wheel allows you to look at your health priorities and measures if you are keeping in check with your recreation goals. Take the adventurous holidays so that you can feel connected with self and your partner and family.
It measures if you are looking after your work life balance, finances and are living your best life in your home environment.
Joya is incredibly valuable to families around Australia because it promotes positive well being, balance and better mental health. I love that it is measurable which is essential for tracking progress, accountability and achieving goals which is a motivating factor.
When things are measurable you can assess success, identify areas that require improvement and then put the necessary actions into place to achieve desired outcomes. The family can work together as a team. It’s a win-win.
Joya truly speaks for itself allowing families to foster positive relationships and ultimately frees time for more leisure, needs being met and contributes to a harmonious joyful family life.
At Joya Life, we believe life planning is more than just setting goals—it’s about aligning your journey with your values, passions, and aspirations. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, we provide personalised guidance and expert advice to help you make confident decisions, achieve your dreams, and live a fulfilling life. The starting point, is knowing where you are now.
Once you complete the Joya Life Scorecard, you’ll receive personalised feedback in a visual way, via the Joya wheel, to help you improve in key areas. Whether it’s managing work stress, enhancing relationships, or prioritising your health, the scorecard will help you create a clear roadmap for progress. You’ll also be able to track your journey over time, ensuring that your goals stay aligned with your values as you grow.
We recommend taking the Joya Life Scorecard every 3-6 months to track your progress and reassess your goals. As life evolves, so should your approach to personal growth. By revisiting the scorecard periodically, you’ll stay on track and make adjustments to continue moving towards a fulfilling, purposeful life.